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Browse all Get Skilled. Curious on what sort of dating advice was dispensed in when the book was published, I wanted to get my hands on it. The ad said all I needed to do was send in. What a deal!
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Unfortunately, after further research, I found that the publisher no longer exists, so I had no place to send my pocket change. Undeterred, I went to eBay to see if any of the original copies still existed. But, overall, How to Get Along with Girls offers some pretty solid and timeless dating advice for men. Shall I marry her? You are required to decide for the rest of your life, at a time when you are bereft of reason.
You are required to be impartial about the object of your love, when love prejudices you in her favor. Unfortunately, such is the cockeyed nature of things that every marrying man gets into this predicament. What you seek in a wife is strictly your business.
But it is only fair to warn you that what you desire may not coincide with what you require.
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You may have no idea of what is good for you. Before you make the momentous decision, you would do well to ponder the questions in this chapter. Obviously, you will not be objective; but it is of the utmost importance that you make the effort. To compensate for your prejudice, be extra hard in judging her.
She is attractive, of course, but is that her chief asset?
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Try to imagine her ten years from today. Do you want her because she is popular—because other men have wanted her? Could you spend seven consecutive evenings in her company without being bored? If the answer is affirmative, it is a good .
Do you have similar tastes in most things? Is she a good sport? Is she reasonably healthy? Is she a flirt? Does she make you jealous?
Decide whether you can stand the strain; your jealously will persist until you grow indifferent. Are you constantly irritated by some small mannerism of hers?
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Does she tell lies? Do you mind? Is she a nag? Is she quarrelsome? Is she trying to reform you? How do you feel about being reformed? Has she tried to boss you? Maybe you need a boss. Would she put up with all your faults if she knew them? When you quarrel, who capitulates first?
A combination of two stubborn mules is bad. Do you agree on children, or a career, or both? Better settle this beforehand. Does she expect you to support her in a definite style? Could you count on her cooperation in hard times? Would she go to work if necessary? Will she help you get ahead? Or will she pull you away from your work? Can she handle money? If you marry her, will you also be marrying her family?
Does she let you get around to see your old pals? If you have been too infatuated to notice, make it a point of finding out. Are you proud to present her to your friends? If not, reconsider. Do you hope to reform her?
Give up the idea. People change, but not according to plan. Do you know her faults?
Are you willing to live with them? Do you still think her perfect? Any other questions a man pondering marriage should consider before making the plunge? Specifically, are there questions a man should ask in that a man might not have asked himself in ?
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