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Determining when a casual relationship is turning into something more can be somewhat tricky. Many people date others casually in modern times.

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One of the most common questions men and women ask is about when to become exclusive — i.

Of course, we all approach the meaning of exclusivity and commitment differently, and in order to know the status of your own relationship, you have to look to the person you're dating, not to Google. Men and women both get nervous when entering new romantic relationships, and there's nothing more frightening than putting yourself out there by asking a question, especially when you know there's a chance you might not like what you hear.

Having the big "DTR" conversation — the one you have when you define the relationship — is something women think about all the time.

But could the transition from dating to becoming boyfriend and girlfriend be too soon? Well, it depends on how often you spend time together and how well you match.

If you haven't know each other very long, consider taking your time getting to know one another rather than jumping in head-first. In this way, you'll at least know your potential partner on a deeper level. You can let the relationship blossom in its own organic timing.

You should know that things will change in the relationship. Once you've decided to take that step, whether it's immediately when you begin to first see each other or are somewhere in between friends and romance, things are progressing and you should never go backwards. What does being boyfriend and girlfriend look like?

How many dates until you’re ‘dating’ a person?

Psychologist Lorell Frysh points out that you first need to know if you're ready. It might make you feel slightly better to know that women aren't the only ones who feel baffled about the right time to make things official. Men get weirded out by the whole ordeal, too! I just assumed once a person was outside of high school that people just assumed these titles once they'd been together a certain amount of time.

I just thought it was on when we saw each other every day and stuff. Tells me right away that you're not really interested, I'm just entertainment until something better comes along.

How many dates before you are ‘seeing’ someone?

Dating is strange, and I don't understand why you would not talk about your dating preferences right from the start. I always did, although my friends said it was weird to state it so quickly. Third date generally may be too early, but if your relationship seems to be progressing to that point, the only thing to do is have a conversation.

Three dates, five dates, five months — you just have to have the conversation with your partner and be on the same. I'd say whenever you're sleeping together, it's reasonable to lock down as an exclusive thing. Honestly this is weird for me as it took a month and like six or seven dates with my first GF to be official. Honestly just enjoying it so much, as the early dating period was so stressful and we pretty much just skipped that.

Relax into it

Nothing really physical, just testing the waters and wanting to find the right person. It got to a point where I knew I wanted to be with her and not the others. Also I didn't want any other guys swooping in to try to take over.

So I just one day made my intentions clear. I forget what I said, something corny or stupid like, 'So do you want to be my girlfriend because I'd like to be your boyfriend.

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If I can't picture it by then I break it off. That said, most people take longer than that to decide, so I wait to bring it up once I'm sure. I'm not into dragging stuff out and I won't 'date' someone who needs several months to make up their mind. When you talk about exclusivity unless you're into an open relationshipdiscuss what this step means to both of you.

What does it mean to be boyfriend and girlfriend?

How long is "normal" to date before it's safe to call yourself boyfriend and girlfriend?

Does this mean you're automatically exclusive? It depends on the relationship, of course, so both partners need to be on the same with what the relationship will look like.

You can't ignore each other for a few days and then reach out for a date; rather, you need to decide if you value spending more time with each other since a relationship means you'll be doing just that. Will you be having sleepovers at each other's houses?

Is it too soon to be boyfriend and girlfriend?

Are you moving in? Are you just slapping the label on? Being boyfriend and girlfriend is very different than being friends having a good time.

Things may become more serious because you're building a relationship together, not just having fun. One way to have this conversation is to not think of it as one single daunting talk, but multiple conversations.

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In each conversation, ask a question like, "Are you open to the possibility of a relationship? Rebecca Jane Stokes is a writer and the Senior Editor of Pop Culture at Newsweek with a passion for lifestyle, geek news, and true crime.

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