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Handling over-eager dates February 17, PM Subscribe Historically, I've been a pretty anxiously-attached dater. I've done a lot of work on this in therapy and on my own, and am really feeling like I finally have a solid handle on it. However, I've now found myself pushing people away who seem to like me more than I'm comfortable with early on, and I'd like some tips on how to handle those situations.

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The first step in having an amazing, healthy relationship is to choose wisely. To do that, you need to know what red flags to watch out for so you can extricate yourself from a bad situation before you get in too deep and wind up brokenhearted.

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Show how excited you are! Games are the absolute worst.

Who wants to play games or be played by them? All they do is make a mess of the matter and no one really wins.

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The person on the receiving end of the game gets heartbroken or just puzzled and the one on the giving end likely feels bad at some point. They probably want to know either way!

I know this is a big fear of many people, particularly because it used to be one of mine. This is just your ego talking because God forbid you look like a human with all your glorious imperfections.

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Vulnerability is also attractive to many people the right people who are healthy, at least. So put it out there and conquer your fear. The right person will likely match your eagerness.

You are super strong and lovely no matter how another person reacts to you. After putting it all out there for the person you like, if they continue to play games with you, be sure to get the heck out of there. There will be plenty of people who will want you.

I know you got excited about the person. You may have even really started to fall for them.

They should be with someone else who will play games right back, not with you someone who knows what they want. You deserve much more.

There are people who will treat you just as you deserve to be treated. There are even plenty of these people to go around.

Of course, there are some exaggerated cases. I say there is no such thing as seeming too eager, but of course, there are some really exaggerated cases like stalking.

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