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Women like Kim Kardashian and Ashley Graham have been rocking the shit out of latex in public, and fetish wear has been slowly creeping into high fashion since LFW Unfortunately, while new people coming onto the scene is mostly positive, there have been a few problems. Zara du Rosea model and fetish event organiser, says there have been times when girls and guys have failed to get consent before getting involved in sex play.
At fetish clubs, dress codes exist to keep everyone safe. About 10 years ago, I was at a club and the dickhead bouncers let in a load of guys in V for Vendetta masks and ponchos. They were just fuckboys, and ended up beating someone up.
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Just look on the website before showing up. What's going to happen when a naked sexy lady is in there — are they going to be respectful?
Also be aware that not everyone is there to chat. Yeah, there are literal s. Master Dominic says the most annoying thing is when first timers choose to ignore them.
Eventually, I was drawing on the walls in crayon. Be aware of that. Try not to react with shock, horror and disgust, even if it's not your thing.
The same rules apply in any other environment. But this is usually swiftly dealt with. Master Dominic says either wait for an invitation or just ask if you want to get involved.
Are you looking for play partners tonight? The vibe is very different.
If you want to take your own condoms and lube, knock yourself out — but most events should provide them. But do bear in mind, not all equipment lying around is there to be used by customers. When in doubt, ask a DM. As tempting as it is to knock back multiple tequilas before you go for the first time, getting too smashed should be avoided.
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If you want to get drunk and dance, and maybe poke your head around the corner of the dungeon, try something like Torture Garden, which you can dip in and out of. Don't go to a hardcore dungeon or serious play club.
Those are the ones where you inevitably end up having the best sex of your life. So don't go with an expectation of anything, instead go to have an experience.
Remember it's supposed to be fun, even if it turns out it's hugely not your thing and you end up leaving. It's daft and silly, after all. Dazed media sites. Skinwalkers: the creepy creatures terrifying TikTok.