How to meet people: 47 best places for making new friends
The internet is deeply interwoven into our everyday lives. More and more people are using social media to share their work, explore the work of others, and even make meaningful friendships.
Job and life advice for young professionals. Every year, more and more of us are creating profiles that represent our authentic selves, and using social media platforms to share our work, explore the work of others — and yes, even make new friends. Many of these relationships began with a quick retweet, comment, or like. It can really be that easy to initiate a meaningful connection.
For me, these relationships are ones that have helped me learn and grow — yes, in my career, but also in my life. The easiest way to connect with people online is to focus on finding the communities you really care about. These are platforms I frequent regularly because of my background, career goals, and personal interest. What are yours? Online, there is literally something for almost everyone with a unique or popular interest. Knitters and crocheters can cross paths on Ravelryastrology lovers can compare s on Co-starfor gamers and ASMR aficionados there are sites like Twitchfor small business owners there is Etsyand the list goes on, and on, and on.
That said, if you are engaging on any of the larger social media networks — Instagram, TikTok, Twitter, YouTube, Reddit — you will need to be more intentional about finding where the communities you care about live within those spaces. Sure, each network favors certain types of content. Instagram is highly visual.
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TikTok and YouTube are perfect for video. Twitter is the go-to platform for journalists, and Reddit is great for anyone researching a niche topic. But in all of these virtual spaces, the more you like and comment on the subjects and creators you want to connect with, the more you will be exposed to their content, and the easier it will be to find people to reach out to. On the larger social platforms, be intentional about what and who you engage with.
The key is to be authentic — and to react authentically to their content. You want to start a conversation, and the best way to do that is to ask a question. For example, did someone post a beautiful dish on your Instagram feed? Ask them how they made it.
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Did someone tweet about a social issue you care about? Send a message letting them know how much you appreciate their post, what you learned from it, and ask what inspired their idea or thought. It really meant a lot to me! What inspired you to write it? Is that watercolor or gouache?
Be selective about who you engage with — but not too selective. The more people you reach out to, the more likely you are to get a response. Right now, we are all craving connection. You may be surprised by how open others are to your efforts, especially when they come from a genuine place of admiration or curiosity.
They may not even know your age. Their first impression of you are your words. Just like a real-life friendship, a foundation of trust and familiarity needs to be earned in order for people to let their guard down.
But what feels like a rejection might actually just be your projection. Remember, people may not respond for a variety of reasons, most of which are out of your control and have nothing to do with you. Even tone can be hard to interpret. Plus, there will always be someone else to connect with. In fact, some people might seem great, but end up annoying you in a very particular way once you begin engaging.
The one rule of making friends online, in my opinion, is approaching people with kindness and compassion. If anyone is breaking that rule, feel empowered to block or mute them. Take it from someone with experience, it will make your day better to remove their right to engage with your presence.
Those are the relationships that will most likely evolve into something more meaningful down the line. The internet can bring out our worst sides if we let it. I have bonded with lots of people this way, and you know what I realized? It feels really good, but only temporarily.
If you can relate, over time, you will likely come to realize, as I and many researchers have, that more often than not, putting other people down for sport is a kind of bluster and callousness used to cover up our own insecurities, fears, and envies. Remember that your unkindness usually says more about yourself than the people you are being unkind to.
You know what those friends you like to gossip with will lead you to? More friends who like to gossip. Pro tip: Do yourself a favor and aim to find friendships that help you grow, feel good about yourself, and inspire you. This is largely because a lot of people have too strict, and frankly, outdated definitions of what a friendship can be.
How to make friends on the internet
I have friends from a variety of backgrounds, all around the world, with a variety of interests, thanks to the internet. But if someone is located nearby, a safe socially distanced walk could be in the cards. Do not expect them to know you well enough to read your mind. Now that you have all the tools you need to get started, how do you feel?
Unlike the brief and friendly encounters you used to stumble upon in the physical world, people on the internet are ever-present and easy to follow up with, which can seem like a lot to navigate at first.
As you begin your friend-making journey, set your own boundaries and cadence. Start small if you want — reaching out to maybe one person you admire a week — and see what happens. The goal is to do what feels right and good for you. You have 2 free article s left this month. You are reading your last free article for this month. Subscribe for unlimited access. How to Make Friends On the Internet. Some of the greatest friendships have started with a retweet.
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